Our vacation was great. We ended up driving up to check out the volcano and overall my W had a good time. My kids absolutely loved it and was sorry to leave on Sunday. My W was PMS'ing a bit which made me anxious to see how she was going to be, but she seemed okay and wasn't bitchy or short-tempered.
One thing I noticed over the vacation and for the last couple of months is that my W really has no happy emotions. She just seems kind of there and doesn't take pleasure in alot of things. All throughout the vacation I tired flirting a bit, but she didn't bite and so I'm thinking of other ways to "attract" as Sandi suggested above.
She really doesn't seem to take much joy in anything. Could it be part of the MLC? I've heard from some who have posted here that in MLC, the person doesn't experience much joy and needs a shot of excitement (like an affair) for stimulation. So my next goal is to find activities that are more "stimulating" to get her more excited about life in general.
Any thoughts or suggestions?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
