My L emailed today and asked me to drive over to check out D9's school she'll prob. be going to in 3 weeks! I emailed her back not going to happen and gave her the details.
H called me re: several things. The reason the bank lady said to us both yesterday she was going to work with us, and her changing her mind is that she said they hadn't received payments from me in May, June, or July. That's logical. But since I did make them, I called my bank and they faxed over immediately front/back copies of the May June,and July checks.They said they normally take a couple days but she did it then. Everyone has been so nice about this except for the credit union of course! I'm hoping if that was the actual reason for not working with us, that she would reconsider since I have been making the payments.
H also told me he registered D9 for public school yesterday. (WEll, now I see why he's acting nice to me!) He is trying to set up a hearing re: that. I'm thinking about agreeing to it on a trial basis so she can start school on time and I'm willing to give it a try.
He also wants to register S15 for high school. S15 was in school for several years and it was horrible b/c of the autism and dyslexia combo. The school H is zoned for was not recommended for autistic kids by the autism person from the nearby autism center I've been talking to (she recommends another school but we're not zoned for that). I did agree I would call and see what kind of accomodations and special ed they have in the school, but I don't think I'm going to agree with that, so that will have to go to hearing probably.
I'm surprisingly ok with all this. I love my Prozac!!! Karen
So who will determine if D9 is handling public school well enough to continue? The teacher? An independent observer? Someone who is appointed by the court? Sorry this stuff just makes me angry. Please don't talk to him anymore than you have to.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
sheesh, karen - stopped over to check on you after all your nice comments on my thread and you've got a soap opera going on over here! What is it with you FL people?!
OK, guess I have good news. I talked to the bank woman today b/c she told H yesterday it turns out that only one payment had been made in May, June, and July. I had faxed over my copies of the checks. So I call her today and she said well we're not giving you the car b/c when we switched the payments from $168 to $365 in April, I kept sending the $168 checks (since I never knew of the change). Apparently b/c my checks were $168 instead of the other it caused some kind of problem. She said it was her supervisor's decision. So I asked for the name/number of her supervisor.
I called and spoke to him and he acted like he'd heard none of what was going on. He kept asking well you weren't making payments or something, and I said no, just the wrong amount. So he called back an hour or so later and said he'll resolve it for now by letting me pick up the car for $500 (to pay the repo fee). And I agree to start paying the monthly amount each month. (Now that I know, of course I will.) H has to pick up the car, and says he will do tomorrow.
Whew! I am so glad that it has worked out in your favor. Hopefully your H will pay the repo fee since he has caused yet another financial situation due to his choices. Better hope I never meet him, he would be black and blue!!
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
He is trying to set up a hearing re: that. I'm thinking about agreeing to it on a trial basis so she can start school on time and I'm willing to give it a try.