First off, for the record, I AM THAT GUY. I do dishes, I fold laundry, I dust, I vacuum. I'm a great dad, who spends LOTS of time with his kids. So, that's my disclaimer.
I could tell that about you.
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That being said, I've also never seen where that "works" with women. They SAY they want that kind of guy, but then they don't find that behavior very attractive. And I've CERTAINLY never seen it, in all my time on this board, be successful in WINNING BACK a wayward wife.
I think a lot of depends what Bill's FORMER domestic style was. If he was overly pleasing, accommodating, etc., it's probably more of a "180" to not do TOO MUCH of that stuff. If, however, he was a chauvinist who never helped out, then -- yeah -- he should help more.
Puppy, who always knows where the Endust is
I guess I made the assumption that since he was a self-declared workaholic that he wsn't around much and she did most of the domestic chores. Lack of attention, lack of help, & loneliness adds up to not feeling appreciated.
My bows to your endust navigation skills.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
