I agree with cat04 says. I love my H, unconditionally, but that does not mean I will live with him unconditionally. Having said that, I am trying to be patient to wait for him to fix up his own mess.

Do you think the H you see today is the true person he is and will be? If he is, is that the person you want to be with? If not, then you can keep on waiting, or move on.

Take care, OC