Dia, I am fully aware of not knowing what to expect from W. This is going to turn into a bunch of journaling for me to release some of this off my chest.
I simply placed what was a boundary for me. I will not assist you in anything that will have any attachment to OM, so do not ask me again. After it became apparent what I had helped her with, I then placed that boundary, and she blew up on me. Gave me all of the typical script, it is not about him, this involved many of my friends, not just him, this is why I am leaving you....etc...etc.... Then when I refused to take phone call, or answer texts, she then turned it into this is why I am leaving you, you can't communicate. Whatever, I let her have her tantrum for about an hour and a half, then my one text back was after I had been deleted from M on FB. I simply said "you have said more than enough". I guess she took that as an opening to call again, I answered at that point, gave my side of the sitch, and got off the phone. I have since then gotten multiple appologies, asked if I wanted her to take back the sitch that involve OM to start it, asked if I want her to change her status back on FB, I just said you can do or not do what ever you feel you need to do.
