For anyone reading I just have a general question. As I read through the threads here it seems that generally there is a 'gradual' get back together pattern. In my case I look back and it was very much like a swicth had been thrown on. One day we were apart, not talking and heading for the final court case, the next day we are back together.
I have explained it before by saying to me it appears my wife swicthed her 'plain of reality' back inot the marriage. I know this was a decision that she thought about for a bit but to me it was as if a light swicth was turned back on.
It doesnt bother me, just it was something I have been thinking of. I know my situation is a bit different in that we are living so far apart but I was wondering if others have had the same experiance. In myself I have no need or desire to 'know' what she did or did not do through our seperation and never think if there was an OM there at any time.
Anyway just some thoughts that have crossed my mind and was interested in other's experiances.
Andrew
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To go forward you have to put the past behind you
