I do agree with MWD that nothing can really truly be worked on with us if he's distracted by "that". And "that" is in his face all day with her made up dramas. I think he knows that it's all make believe but yet, he continues with it. It's the Knight in White Shining Armour syndrome....my H suffers from it severly. I hope he's learned his lesson this time but we'll see.
Yes, she may have been a symptom in the beginning, now she's the actual disease. We only fight about her BS and his still on-going relationship with her. Now, admittedly, this relationship isn't even a FRACTION of what it once was....but it's still there and I know that he's still distracted by all of it. And he's also dealing with embarrassment issues as it relates to her.
But yes, his own journey, in his own time. I'm just ready to get off the vehicle on this journey. I want off.
