I would not get too worked up with what your mom's are saying. It is just their way of expressing their concern on your present states. Since they do not read your posts, they are probably wondering why you seem to be standing still....again they probably also notice that their daughters are a little sad and just want to shake you up a little. It is tough to put yourself in someone else's shoes if you have not been there before. I could just imagine what I would have told a buddy of mine if he recounted my story....it would be ugly......but today,since I have been through this mess, I would be quite a bit kinder / more carefull ...or at least I like to think so.
