On the verge of a meltdown.

[Serenity13]

I am bumping this up for some of the more experienced posters...

There is an awful lot going on in the one post and someone out there will help

Did you check at the library for the DB or DR books? I know mine didn't have them but I know others who checked them out from the library...

I will say this...

Don't fret...

I know easier said then done...

Stop trying to get her to go to counseling...

Stop taking the blame - Nothing is ever one persons fault...

You don't "need to know" anything at this point...

Stop trying to make her tell you what is wrong because right now she doesn't even know...

Good job on quitting the weed and smokes...

Good job on losing weight...

I am on the same diet lol

The empty nest is killing me.the thought of uncertainty.to much quiet time.and the lack of funds to do anything.the whole sitch could just suck a bowling ball through a straw.

You have to much time on your hands and all you are doing is sitting around thinking about the sitch...

You need to get out and you don't need funds to do that...

Take a walk...

Go to Church (if that is something you believe in)...

Visit friends...

Anything to take your mind off of what is going on - In other words GAL and start doing some 180's - It really does work...

Post here and read through other peoples' threads...

There is excellent advice offered on all the threads...

I welcome you to the place none of us want to be at