Well I am back. Wish I was still on vacation. I love where we go and would love to live there if I could.

The vacation went okay. We had a couple of downs but mostly ups and I ended up having lots of fun. I found out that my H did in fact lie to me about a few of the things that he said some of my friends had told him after I filed on him. I waited till we were within 10 of home and confronted him about it. He back peddled and really could not get himself out of it. I am disappointed to find out that he had lied to me so easily but at the same time relieved to know that my friends had not said those things.

I am still going to hang in there for a bit longer. See if things get better. I know that most of you on here have said that I need to get out but that doesn't seem possible right now. I am still wanting to try the DB tech. and MC to see what can happen there. I am still reading articles and books and of course posting on here.

Bunny, how are things going for you? Any news, good or bad?

Me-31
Him-28
D1-9
D2-6
Married 5-06
Seperated 12-07
He filed 1-08
Reconciled 4-08 D dropped 7-08
Bomb dropped about H's activities outside the marriage 4-21-09
Filed for D 4-28-09
Trying to make a go of it 6-09