go with the first card and sign it, (if you must), "WITH LOVE" or "love always" or something like that.
But do not give her the card that pressures her....
J-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016