Its ok, just don't go deeper than you have. Take care of you right now.
Keep doing what you are doing. Keep leaving at 5. Keep the laptop closed. Find balance in your life. Not just for your W, but for you and your children also.
She has come to a decision after a long time of same old - same old. It will take a long time to not only make these changes in you permanent, but to also get her to see they are permanent. It takes 3 weeks to make a new behavior a habit.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
