Hey T, I think you should call your xw about the school thing. It's not about her, it's about your daughter. You'll feel better when that gets done.

I can imagine how hard it is not to be confused regarding your xw. But, you really might be analyzing things a bit much. It is going to be whatever it is meant to be. No amount of worry or confusion is going to change it, ya know?

Just go with it. As far as going out with that woman, do what your heart tells you to do. If it doesnt feel right to you, then dont do it. But, make sure it has to do with your feelings about it and not what your xw might or might not be feeling towards you.