IMHO, you did the right thing by staying for dinner. THE DB way is happy, upbeat and casual much like a good friend would be. As long as you can do dinner or whatever with that attitude, do it. Setting up the TV - not a big deal IMHO as long as you're not at her beck and call for every little thing. Once in awhile if it's no skin off your nose, yes. Come running every time she calls, no.


The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.

My sitch - Divorce Busted!
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