Puppy - Help !

[lowneil]

I had a conversation with my W last night. We discussed our recent problems and she said that she had been trying for a year and a half.

I pushed back and she really had put zero effort into our relationship other than telling me what I needed to do (take me away, be more loving, etc).

I didn't think I got through to her, but she told me was going to speak to the Retrouvaille facilitators and she came home with two books last night:

I Love You But I'm Not In Love With You

and

When Good People Have Affairs

I think this is at least a sign that she is slowing down the whole divorce train. I can't remember her ever going out and buying books on relationships.