[/quote] I guess my question is can a woman/WAW, really do things like my wife did the last couple of weekends, if she really doesn't have any feelings for me? That is one of the things that my wife keeps saying, that she doesn't feel that way about me anymore.
So I've really been trying to figure out how to "attract" her back.
I know her primary love languages are "Quality Time", "Touch" and "Words" (all 3 scored within 2 points of each other).
I don't think the jealousy route will really work as her dad cheated on her mom, and left the family for another woman.
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I would never be able to touch or kiss a man I wasn't physically attracted to. I will never ML with a man I don't truly love and care about. That's where I've always been in life....so my answer is no. But there are people who can do this....for some reason, I do believe when it comes to physical contact, your wife if like me.
I think it's time to back off, to really detach and bring it back to basics....meaning, you can only talk to her about logistical stuff. Maybe cut back on what you do together. And the next time she starts up with the flirting and the taking off some clothes, stop her before it begins with this: "Please dont' bother with just frustrating me. I love kissing you, it's wonderful, but you don't stop there. You take it just far enough to frustrate me and that's just mean." See where that gets you.
I think some more absence is going to make her heart grow fonder of you.
There are times when you change the game plan. First reason, what you're doing is working and it never did. Second reason, what you've done has worked, but it's now played out and now it's time to revamp, improve the game plan to get to the next level. I think you're now in the second reason category. I think what you've done has gotten you to this point, but now it's time to finish this separation off and end it with you two reconciling.
