Originally Posted By: beepee


I'm so lost, I don't know what to do. Can any of you experienced DBers give me any advice at all? Anything would be greatly appreciated. I know I need more than a few days to think about what I want to do but advice on how to proceed would be so helpful right now and even just support. Thanks so much, I look forward to hearing your responses..


No way in hell I'd do it. He left you before (cheated on you), left you THIS time without warning, and only comes back when he needs something from you???

He's using you, in my opinion. Time for him to learn that there are consequences for his selfish decisions.

In addition (and I haven't seen the form), but to sign it MAY put you in jeopardy for some kind of visa/immigration fraud for misrepresenting your relationship with him.

Puppy