She does have an issue with money and she has a history of being bailed out by people before I knew her. I think the approach of letting her work through her budgest and then say this is what she needs will be one that should work. I am trying to give her the financial 'independance' that she is after but also protect us financially as well.
I truely dont think she reconciled because of financial reasons but I still dont have 100% trust there yet. While she is not good with money she definiately isnt money hungry and I see a difference between the two of them.
I always try now to put myself in her shoes, the outburst this week was more due to the stress of creditors, moving and a range of other things. The fact that she apologised for it is a big step for us, it has been a long long time she she has apologised like that.
Thankyou for your wishes.
Andrew
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To go forward you have to put the past behind you
