Ok maybe I have it all wrong and needed this reminder, but I felt like I wanted h to know that these are standards I'm setting for myself regardless of another man. I was thinking that I don't want to rebuild our R based on him having ow and me possibly seeing another man, especially since I was briefly talking to someone else. It just felt like too much immorality floating about so I'm always telling him no, this is just me. He keeps pressuring the subject about whether there's someone else adn he brings it up all the time and drills me with questions so that's why it keeps coming up. I don't tell him outright that theirs noelse he just looks for that assurance by asking all the time. Should I avoid answering and then appear to be cheating as well giving me message that I want him to be done with ow while I still seeing someone else. Trust me, i've given him full impression that in our sep I've been dating and he knows that I was very interested in my friend. But I told him I stopped talk ing to my firend since him and I were obviously not done and I want to keep my life uncomplicated. Wrong move? Any advice on how to do this is welcomed. Funny thing though is that no matter what I say b/c I'm not all over him and trying to set boundaries, he's convicned that its someone else there. Thanks, Pup and others.
