Gosh, farfromhome, the $ thing would make me nervous. Be careful, and if you don't mind me saying, you might need to stop being her bank. Seems you have always bailed her out and that can be quite addictive. Money can be an addiction like anything else. If she wants you for you and is serious about reconciling for the right reasons, and not for monetary reasons, she will need to NOT be so aggressive about money in the future. Good luck.
