I feel your pain. We all do. We are all so proud of you for setting your boundaries. From your words I can tell you are a good person. Good people deserve to be treated GOOD. You have not been treated that way for a long time. You are totally justified for doing what you HAVE to do. Your M/R was NOT healthy. You are doing this for your and your children's health and well being. Like I said before. Nothing is set in stone. You can move out, file for divorce, battle in court for mons/yrs. and your H could finally "get it" and DECIDE to DO the WORK and convince you that he has REALLY CHANGED.
