In a strange way, I think real consequences to his actions would make him feel better...maybe? Because holding him accountable shifts the energy, and he'll have to work if he wants to keep you. He's kept you off balance...why change?
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Trying to understand this part. Feel better meaning, feel justified in his actions? Or feel better about trying again if he is held accountable? Sorry I am a little confused...
Gathering up his mail today. I think I will just put it in the mailbox over at his fixer-upper....I would do a blanket 'change of address' request, but some of our mail has both our names on it still (medical bills for the kids, mortgage papers for my house) and I don't want to risk not getting mail that I need.
