I got the approval on the apartment yesterday, and I should hear in a few days the exact apartment number they’ll be giving me. I have to stop by to drop off the security deposit and sign the lease, then I’m good to go.
I was talking with a friend of mine here at the office over lunch yesterday (obviously without going into details about the how and why). As an attorney and someone who’s been through a divorce, he was giving me some things to think about in terms of finances and personal property. My head was spinning by the time we were done.
I haven’t had any conversations with H about our M since the last one about two weeks ago. I feel like I need to talk to him about this before I actually pull the trigger, I wish I could let go of that feeling. All this stuff to do without him knowing- getting the apartment, my own checking acct, my own credit card, etc… (I only got as far as the apartment; I’m not sure how to do the rest without him knowing). I feel like I should be upfront and honest about this, and let him know what's going on.
My plan was to tell him the weekend of 8/22, and move the first week of Sept. That would give him two weeks notice. I was also planning on telling him at his sister’s after telling her what I was doing and why, so that ONE person, besides H, knows my side of the story. I am so anxious waiting for that date to get here; I want to get it over with. I’m wondering if I just go ahead and do it now…
