Thanks for the reply. As I posted before when I talked to her today the first thing she did was apologise. She is under a lot of pressure with a bunch of creditors knocking on her door and I can understand her reaction - Didnt like it but I can understand.
Your right about taling care of the future and I am doing this. We have worked out a way for the money sode to work which will make sure she is comfortable while 'protecting' our assetts.
I have learnt now not to react to these things when she is upset, particularly when it is from stress. Im gald I have this board to have my outbursts on.
Again thanks for you post.
Andrew
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