It's really funny. I think I detached so much that back in June I just accepted that this marriage was over. But the wheels kept turning and now tomorrow we go into counseling. Just funny. I still want this marriage, but I don't need it. I know I can do this on my own if I need to. I know I can make a happy life for myself and for my children wither way.
The question I am asking above and that I feel I am not articulating well is -- how do I treat counseling? Do I lay it all on the table when the counselor asks questions? Or do I focus on DB principals even in the counseling session? Should I expect some pull-back from her just because we are going to counseling (my guess is yes).