I'm not exactly sure what to do. My XW and I need to discuss and come to a decision regarding where my daughter will be going to school like yesterday. We have two options. I feel stupid that this isn't already taken care of. It should have been.
So I'm going back and forth on whether or not to contact her about this. I think I'll give it a couple of more days.(as I cringe) I hate that this isn't decided by now.
I realized yesterday that I have heard almost everything I have wanted to hear, except for exactly what I have wanted to hear. If that makes any damn sense. I don't know....today I find myself saying wtfever. I like that...wtfever.... SHOW me something.
I was asked out this weekend too. It sounds like it would be a blast and she is an awesome person. Normally I would be grinning from ear to ear. Now...who knows? I don't even know.
Quite the impressive mess I have going here. Nothing I can do but laugh.
Regarding the going out...I really don't know what to say. The old me would have said go for it but after all that is going on w/you and ur ex, I am hesitant to say that.
Going out as friends is ok. I think if you keep it on a level you are comfortable with things will be ok. Just make sure you don't send mixed signals to the woman.
I don't want to wait at all when it comes to school. It needs to be done, but here we go. Do I call, do I not call and let her?
I give the shitt waaaay to much thought and energy.
Yeah, the date thing. She is someone I've know for a while and we both have always had relationships with other people. Very nice person. A week and a half ago? No problems whatsoever. Now?
The timing of everything lately has just been brilliant.
I think ypu should go ahead and call regarding the school thing. That way it is one less thing to worry about.
Just relax and let things flow.
Look at it this way, if you don't go out with this woman will you keep stressing yourself with what if? There is nothing wrong with going out with a friend.
I blame myself for letting it go this long. We had decided on a school and I thought it was done. We had some news about two or three weeks ago that caused us to rethink things. It should have been handled then. So yes, this needs to be done soon.
As far as everything else goes, I think about this crap way too much once again.