Just a follow up form the post yesterday. I talked to wife this morning and the first thing she did was apologise for yesterday. She said sometimes she just gets so confused she says things that she knows dont make any sense. I can see how hard it is for her, she is wearing the brunt of the creditors and having people calling up and threatening her. I had told her the money was going to come in before this, and although I have explained the dealys, she still is upset that the money didnt come in when I said.
One of her issues with me is broken promises (and yes I am the worlds greatest procrastinator - which is something that I am trying to work on).
Anyway I haev arranged some short term money to get us out of this bit of a mess. We sell half the company next week and will have the cash about a day after that.
So in the end I handled yesterday pretty well I think, I didnt get all defensive and jump into a fight but put off the conversation until she cooled down. She was also happy that I had looked at things from her point of view and sympathised with her.
Anyway the striking out when under stres is something we all do. In the end I am the only one that she can take her frustrations out on.
Anyway thanks for listening it helps getting the bad thoughts out here instead of on the phone. Geeze the long distance marriages can be painful though. Anyway only 4 weeks till im home for a little bit.
Andrew
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