Ok backed off a few days trying to get my head together. Decided if I feel like responding to H I will, if I don’t then I wont and im gonna stop over thinking everything. Base it on what I want/feel, not him or anyone else. I would like to try and encourage more conversation btw us, which has been happening more recently initiated by him (mostly thru emails & texts so far). But keeping with no expectations, if he’s open to it, ok good, if not im ok with it and I carry on like usual. just typing off the top of my head to get thoughts out, off to the gym now!
Me-27 H-28 M-2.5 yrs T-8.5 yrs No kids B 1/09 S 2/09