Trying to cope with H, IA/EA (was Newbie-1st post)

[Faith2010]

Thanks Almost. You've given me a lot of think about.

This morning we talked and H is back to the "I don't knows." In reference to contact with OW he said "I am going to try." I didn't push. However, I did tell him that if he meets her in the future and pursues a physical relationship it will change everything. H did not respond to that. I also told him he has no idea what S is feeling and the hurt this has caused S. I also told him I can not deal with the details of what he's doing because it hurts too much. H said "what do you know?" I told him he knows exactly what I know. He left it at that.

When he left, he hugged me and said something like: I don't know what's going to happen, I don't want us to end up hating each other.

Here's the kicker - as he drove away he was on the phone...guess who!