Quote: ... because she 'knows' that I am hiding it in assetts overseas.
You could express how you feel you are being persecuted as guilty rather than being presumed innocent until there is evidence to the contrary. Even in a trial the accused has a right to hear the evidence against them. What "proof" does she have that she knows you have a "stash"?
If she is unwilling to wait the couple of weeks for the receipt of more funds, the only avenue I can think of is may be mentioning you will have to start looking into bankruptcy preceedings. Maybe that would be enough to cast some doubt into her beliefs, but you may have to go as far as collecting information on the legal proceedings of bankruptcy and then relay them to her and how that course of action will have an affect on your future, because this pattern cannot continue to occur.
