5LL is excellent. Once you know which techniques are most suited to your spouse, you do need to keep a little restraint in not going over the top with it, especially if your spouse's LL is physical touch. My H is responding really will to compliments, praise and thanks (words of affirmation)but he's pretty gunshy about touch.
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
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