Thanks Puppy - He's a high school crush and it's only been going on since June 26, but W has been crushing on him since high school 30 years ago. I know she's confusing all that pent up emotion for love, but he's in California and when I met him at their 20 year high school reunion 10 years ago he told me "yeah...I told my wife in California I might screw around on this trip." I really believe this is a fling and I'm intervening at the RIGHT time. Please stay with me on this I need all the support I can get!