Quit doing these things to change her. All these little questions about how she is reacting leads me to believe you have not truly gotten this whole thing.
You have to get into this whole zinlike being, where you are changing for you, being the absolutely best you can be, and in the end if this truly happens, then she MAY come around. Like I have said many times, it is just a great waste product of the chemical equation for making you an awesome dude.
