I read Michelle's guide and then interviewed a counselor. I definitely found one who believes in action oriented therapy. She disavowed any value judegements in terms of a prejudice toward divorce or marriage, but intuitively I felt she wa son the right level there. We'll see, but I think she is a good bet.

I'm curious Mac, how am I rushing it? Is it the reference to "once we're reconciled?" Becuse I really meant that more in a theoretical sense.

I appreciate your input.

-CL