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Thanks for replying mac, I needed to laugh a bit!


It is only my pleasure sweet damsel (taking low bow here).

There is SOME sort of opportunity here.
Not sure how to handle it.
I'm sure a member of the Elite Team here will chip in soon.

Hugs.

Mac

Oh and before I forget - your sig is getting better and better.
I like this change smile

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There is SOME sort of opportunity here.


I can't IMAGINE what that is. I hope someone gives me some advice soon. I'm getting anxious and can't stop shaking. I should go for a walk or something. Or maybe right my new bike! But I'm shaking so bad that I'm afraid I won't be in control of the bike.. I'll wait awhile and see how I feel.

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Oh and before I forget - your sig is getting better and better.


A mixture of Yes, Tesla and Led Zep!! Can't get any better than that!!


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M: almost 3 years (anniv coming up Sept 25th)
Together: 4years
Bomb: June 12th, 2009

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beepee,

If you are shaking that much I would highly recommend going into the kitchen and whipping some cream for Apple Pie.

No need to waste energy girl - just gotta know how to redirect it smile

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(((((beepee)))))

I don't know the answer, either, but I don't think you can go wrong by waiting for a few days. Then it gets a bit trickier. I am worried that he is asking you to lie. Which is pretty selfish on his part. It might be one of those "victimless" crimes, but it isn't at all right for him to put you in that kind of situation.

I need to think about this some more.....

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Hi Beep...

Mac asked me to come by here and as he has stated "eff that"...

I haven't read your whole post...

I started at the email from your H...

I will agree with you that it appears he is using you...

I agree with Mac to wait at least 24 if not 48 hours...

Never respond in emotion...

If you want to say something out of emotion, you wait at least 2 days (that is what I was told) and then revisit that reponse...

He has until the 31st so a couple of days for you to mull it over won't hurt...

Go ride your nice new bike...

Get some fresh air and try not to think to hard about this...

In your heart you will know what to do...

It will come to you but don't fret and don't respond just yet...

I will see if I can find Puppy...

He is the one I normally look for when I have a problem and don't know how to respond to it (because my response is usually wrong lol)...

Keep your chin up smile

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Serenity,

You actually disappointed me. I was expecting a tirade of expletives grin

Not like you at all smile

beepee - good advice here.

Hang on for the Big Guns. Go whip cream (yum yum).

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LOL...I can't curse anymore Mac...It is the 25th "rule" of my Church so I am trying very hard to not go there...Plus it isn't very ladylike....Only 1 slip in 2 days smile


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I am worried that he is asking you to lie. Which is pretty selfish on his part.


I was thinking about this too, but we are still married, just not together. So its kinda lying and kinda not, know what I mean? But yeah, I guess it is lying when we actually aren't together anymore.

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I need to think about this some more.....


Please do, I would be so grateful!


Me: 25 years young
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No Kids
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Hi Serenity, thanks so much for stopping by!
I really appreciate it.

I really don't know what to do, but I will defintely wait a few days before responding just to think about things. I don't know if my heart will truly know what to do in just a few days..

If you can get Puppy to come here, that would be great, I need as much advice as I can..

Thanks again for your advice!! smile


Me: 25 years young
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No Kids
M: almost 3 years (anniv coming up Sept 25th)
Together: 4years
Bomb: June 12th, 2009

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I just realized something freaky and weird.

Yesterday, when I was browsing craigslist. I saw an out of place ad that said KARMA. And so I just HAD to click on it and see what the deal was. The post said something along the lines of "I believe in karma and so do you, something good will happen to you tomorrow between the hours of 9AM and 10AM" (something like that).

And I said to myself, wow, IMAGINE if H emailed me between those times today. And well, as you all know, HE DID. exactly 6 minutes after 9AM. How feckin weird is that!!!???

I mean, I havent heard from him in ages, and I come across a weird ad while browsing for apts and have hope that he would email me tomorrow or something and HE DID. This is just TOO weird. Now I don't know is this is something good or not though. The ad said something good will happen to me, but I don't know if his email was something good though.

But it's still freaky and weird nonetheless!!


Me: 25 years young
H: 37
No Kids
M: almost 3 years (anniv coming up Sept 25th)
Together: 4years
Bomb: June 12th, 2009

**LOVE WILL FIND A WAY FOR TWO FOOLS IN THE RAIN**
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