@Coach, ok, I think I had the wrong mindset - that I was working on me and essentially waiting her out on whatever decision she came to. I see your point, but other than improving me for me, I'm not sure what the goal is. Maybe that is the goal - to be a better person for just that. Think I'm climbing out of the valley this am.
@IWITW, thanks for the encouragement. We all need that from time to time.
Last day at Disney. Just got to park. D wanted to go to Magic Kingdom. S decided he wanted EPCOT. I see this irked W - does she want us all together? Maybe just W and the kids? Anyway, W finally gives in to S after I volunteer to take him to EPCOT while W and D go to MK. W seems to be in a snippy mood this am with the kids but not me. Strange.