Hi Kevin,

Why was the D dismissed then? Is she thinking about reconcilation?

Hi Breakaway,

H's step-mother rules all! I totally agree that NO adult should bring their parents to a hearing but that is the way she is....pretends she cares about him when I know for a fact she doesn't. Just an act in front of his F. But I could just hear her now....I'm going and that's all that's to it. And even FIL is ruled by her. So they go. She calls all the shots even with her brothers and other family members. I have seen it so much in the last 10yrs.!

Our D's C said for them to just write to each other for now so that's why our D sent the card and letter but he claims he never received it. And she goes to the mail box every day waiting for a response. He said yesterday that he will be contacting her but I don't know what to think.

Her C said that Daddy is ill and until he gets better there is nothing that she can do for him. And that she needs to just worry about herself and be a kid. And hopefully he will get help and get better. We have an appt. coming up this week and I also put a call into her to see what she suggests I tell our D.


M 41
H 35
D 12
S 18
Separated 11/08