I vote no as well...The word will get back to her that you had a party and she had no invite which in turn makes her think about you moving on without her - a 180 which is perfect I hope you had a wonderful sleep and all is well.
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~