Kissak - get the book called "I do again..."
IT is good.

I read your post really briefly. Glad that your x has been in counseling! WOW that is growth!! Glad that he is there so you can be his friend.

Glad you are better-- amazing what has happened to you in this past year!

M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06
Moved out 3/12/07
D final 7/30/2008
finding myself again