Still, I dont think that you can really call these things right or wrong. If she legitimately feels this way, and it sounds like you think she is, then all you can do is try to help her heal from that. You say yourself that you made mistakes, we all have, now you can take this chance to show her the changes that you have made.

Dont talk about the R anymore. That pressures her, and will make her resent you. I think that all thats left now is to just give her the time and space that she needs. I think that you can move up there and still give her space.

Last edited by bluerain; 08/04/09 06:19 AM.
I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...