OM a threat or just a friend? WAWs got an answer?

[Mr GK]

and now we just fb chatted for a while, I am not sure where to go regardig the guy, but I do believe that I need to move up there, asap! no job to hold me back!

but on the other hand, she considers our LS to be a divorce, and she can have whatever friends she wants.


I have to add that I was a horrible husband, neglectful, and critical, and did not help around the house. She loves the term abuse. And maybe it was. ot maybe her counselor is adding weight to something that was bad, only to make it worse.

All I can see, is that she is really hurt, and the counseling has not seemed to heal that yet. I think that I want to quit talking about relationship stuff with her.
is she so wrong to act the way she is, if I really hurt her once, and she felt violated?
I dont know!
I am tired! maybe I'll go read others postings....