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And re: saying her name - He hugged me as part of an apology for taking about her thoughtlessly in front of me. He didn't call me by her name or say it while he was hugging me.


whistle I am sure glad to hear that! And....you most certainly are NOT a slow learner....are you kidding? But, as we've said before, it is hard to see ourselves in our own stitch and often takes someone on the outside to point something out. Besides, that is just my POV. Others may not see that at all.



It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!