Hey, sandi - thank you, and no worries. Nothing you said landed funny. I appreciate the feedback and even if it looks like I'm a slow learner, I do take these things to heart and *try* to listen.
And re: saying her name - He hugged me as part of an apology for taking about her thoughtlessly in front of me. He didn't call me by her name or say it while he was hugging me.
Thank you for the kind words. I am going to read your post again and think on it.
Cheers,
Dia
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
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