Please help me with your comments. Discovered facts - wife had an affair this weekend. Lied to me about all of this for the past 2 months. I have set a firm boundary. She's been playing me. Thinking she could have her cake and eat it too and took advantage of my work on DB and friendship. I told her I have NOTHING more to say to her unless she comes clean about the whole thing. _________________________ Married 16.5 yrs. Wife detonated nuclear bomb asking for Divorce July 6, 2009 Currently in-house separation for 3 months I'm on Divorce Busting track 2 daughters 6, and 9 Wife 48 Me 49