Hey Dia-

I skimmed DB at the bookstore, have read DR about 10 times in the last few months, do not have 5LL nor have I seen it. It sounds like one I should look into, though.

Thanks for the words of support! Today was a day they were definitely needed... crazy

Me: 50; Wife: 48
Gay; civil union in NJ
no kids
M: 15 years, together 17
Bomb (OW) 2/09 (EA 3mos/PA 3mos) ILYBINILWY
W out of house, w/OW, in separation talks, nothing filed