so this is funny - h called, i put son on the phone. of course h asks to talk to me....in his nice voice (not sure what happened to the "i hate you" voice) - hi, i heard u got a restricted call yesterday. just wanted u to know it was no one from out here (note he cant refer to psycho ow any other way than "someone out here")...
i had told his mother yesterday when i got the call. obviously she told him and obviously he panicked and got back to psycho and questioned her on it. either way she said it wasnt her and either way he doesnt believe her so he calls to smooth it over...
point of my story- ive decided he fears me! he fears what my next course of action would be.
i think its funny. and u know what? its good.
perhaps he may learn to respect me in this process.