Is that really good advice? I suppose so Me being here and seeing them once a month is not good enough, and i hate, HATE!!!!!, the OM being there doin stuff with them that I should be doing!
And sandi2, if I do that she might actually appreciate me getting of my blessed assurance!
So should I tell her to stop having him around? I have been going on the idea that you can t control people. And I have been cruel and maybe bossy at points, but you know, I have been really passive too, and she hated that. She even now tells me that I need to take control and make my own decisions when I go up there..on what to do with the kids, and where to go. I just have had her do it, because she knows the area better than I.
She has a lot on her plate, and I can take some off her plate that way, but now is the time to move up there, now that I am unemployed.
Last edited by stillthehusband; 08/04/0901:24 AM.
M/30s WAW/30s 4 children S 1 yr LS 8 months OM / just a friend 1 1/2 YR D 1 month
