True, but he CAN commit RIGHT NOW to no-contact and transparency. The WITHDRAWAL will take a long time to completely happen, but the DECISION can come in and instant, and it needs to, in my opinion.
I truly believe what they mean when they say "Love is a decision." I think fidelity is, too.
That is what I was thinking. I know he'll need to get over OW BUT all contact needs to stop or there is NO POINT in us trying to mend our broken M.
Me: 39 H: 39 S: 15 M: 18 years Bomb: 6/3/09 H moved out: 10/15/09 H moved back:5/30/10
