Trying to cope with H, IA/EA (was Newbie-1st post)

[Faith2010]

Asked H if he meant what he said in the text. He said yes, he thought about things and made the decision today. Told him all contact to OW would need to stop. Asked if he already broke contact. He said no. Told him I'd like to see the e-mail when he does, if that is how he's going to do it. H was a bit wishy-washy - I'm not really believing he's sincere but I will wait and see.

In the car H started telling me about last night. When he was finished I asked if he was going to apologize to S. He said "For what?" I said the text. He said (incredulously) "Me apologize to him?" I said yes, the ruining the night remark. He corrected me and said "I said great way to end the night, not that he ruined the night." I informed him S did not ruin the night. Needless to say, he was pissy after that.

I'm off to a much needed massage.