Im not really sure my H is ready for reconciling or is even testing the waters. I think he really just has anxiety attacks sometimes when he think I may be out there looking....even though Im not really. He is just a very complicated man and even weird to some extent.
I think that it is alot easier for us to work on the friendship when he isnt with someone else. He really hasnt been in any other R with anyone else since him and the OW broke up a year ago. I think he is still trying to get over her in a way. I think he would go back to her in a heartbeat and until that desire is gone, I dont think he would want to come home. But he goes through spells of seeming interested in comin home some times...
He is still in therapy. He goes every 2 weeks now because he cant afford every week. We are better friends now. He does still help me alot and will still do anything for me. I dont think that doing any flirting with him would help....he would consider it teasing and then I would have to tell him no. Which is hard to do for me.
Oh well, I think lately he has seen me detaching some from him. He can tell. I never know what kind of mood he is in though from day to day...he is always feeling different every day....
I married a very confusing man....only now I know just how confused he is. I really dont see an end in sight right now...but, Im still willing to give him a chance if I see him change...but honestly, what I see now, Ive seen before. He can be very smooth when he wants something.
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
